Bluetooth: host: Fix missing connection id checks

Fix issue where a new connection with the same peer would use the CCC
from from first connection, despite different local identity.
Since there is no CCC for the new connection yet this caused the
application to think that CCC was enabled but the remote device had not
yet subscribed.

Fix this issue by making the id as an input to the peer address check
function. This will force us to make the check every time. This commit
might also fix similar issues not yes discovered as the ID check was
missing in a few other places as well.

Signed-off-by: Joakim Andersson <joakim.andersson@nordicsemi.no>