drivers: espi: xec: Allow to intercept eSPI host suspend/reset warnings

Fix #22188
Introduce config option to disable automatic acknowledge via
virtual wires on response to eSPI host suspend and reset warnings.
This will give the opportunity for eSPI slave systems that need to
perform preparations before reset or suspend.

Signed-off-by: Jose Alberto Meza <jose.a.meza.arellano@intel.com>