drivers: i3c: i3c attach/detach api

There are some needs to attach and reattach i3c/i2c devices at runtime
Some I2C devices can have special registers where the address can be
changed at runtime. Also some I3C devices can be powered off at runtime
freeing up the address space they take up. These new APIs allow for these
to be changed at runtime. This also moves some config/data in to a common
i3c config/data structure which would allow the api to operate on to be
common for all I3C drivers.

Signed-off-by: Ryan McClelland <ryanmcclelland@meta.com>