drivers: dai: intel: ssp: Introduce DMA control set API

This commit adds a new API function, `dai_ssp_dma_control_set`, to the
Intel SSP DAI driver. This function is designed to set DMA control
parameters specifically for the SSP interface.

The addition of this API function allows for more granular control of
DMA settings, which can be beneficial in scenarios where DMA
configuration needs to be modified independently of other DAI settings.

Signed-off-by: Tomasz Leman <tomasz.m.leman@intel.com>