include: dai: Introduce runtime DAI configuration update API

This patch introduces a new API function, `dai_config_update`, in the
DAI driver API to enable runtime updates to the DAI configuration. This
function allows bespoke configuration parameters to be set, enabling
updates that are specific to the DAI implementation and can be applied
outside of the regular configuration flow.

The addition of this API provides greater flexibility for adjusting DAI
settings at runtime, which is particularly useful in scenarios where
only specific parameters need to be modified without the need to
reconfigure the entire DAI interface.

Signed-off-by: Tomasz Leman <tomasz.m.leman@intel.com>