ocfs2/dlm: wait until DLM_LOCK_RES_SETREF_INPROG is cleared in dlm_deref_lockres_worker

Commit f3f85464 ("ocfs2_dlm: Ensure correct ordering of set/clear
refmap bit on lockres") still exists a race which can't ensure the
ordering is exactly correct.

Node1               Node2                    Node3
umount, migrate
lockres to Node2
                    migrate finished,
                    send migrate request
                    to Node3
                                              received migrate request,
                                              create a migration_mle,
                                              respond to Node2.
                    set DLM_LOCK_RES_SETREF_INPROG
                    and send assert master to
                    Node3
                                              delete migration_mle in
                                              assert_master_handler,
                                              Node3 umount without response
                                              dlm_thread purge
                                              this lockres, send drop
                                              deref message to Node2
                    found the flag of
                    DLM_LOCK_RES_SETREF_INPROG
                    is set, dispatch
                    dlm_deref_lockres_worker to
                    clear refmap, but in function of
                    dlm_deref_lockres_worker,
                    only if node in refmap it wait
                    DLM_LOCK_RES_SETREF_INPROG
                    to be cleared. So worker is
                    done successfully

                                              purge lockres, send
                                              assert master response
                                              to Node1, and finish umount
                    set Node3 in refmap, and it
                    won't be cleared forever, thus
                    lead to umount hung

so wait until DLM_LOCK_RES_SETREF_INPROG is cleared in
dlm_deref_lockres_worker.

Signed-off-by: Yiwen Jiang <jiangyiwen@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Joseph Qi <joseph.qi@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Junxiao Bi <junxiao.bi@oracle.com>
Cc: Mark Fasheh <mfasheh@suse.de>
Cc: Joel Becker <jlbec@evilplan.org>
Signed-off-by: Andrew Morton <akpm@linux-foundation.org>
Signed-off-by: Linus Torvalds <torvalds@linux-foundation.org>