bpf, sockmap: bpf_tcp_ingress needs to subtract bytes from sg.size

In bpf_tcp_ingress we used apply_bytes to subtract bytes from sg.size
which is used to track total bytes in a message. But this is not
correct because apply_bytes is itself modified in the main loop doing
the mem_charge.

Then at the end of this we have sg.size incorrectly set and out of
sync with actual sk values. Then we can get a splat if we try to
cork the data later and again try to redirect the msg to ingress. To
fix instead of trying to track msg.size do the easy thing and include
it as part of the sk_msg_xfer logic so that when the msg is moved the
sg.size is always correct.

To reproduce the below users will need ingress + cork and hit an
error path that will then try to 'free' the skmsg.

[  173.699981] BUG: KASAN: null-ptr-deref in sk_msg_free_elem+0xdd/0x120
[  173.699987] Read of size 8 at addr 0000000000000008 by task test_sockmap/5317

[  173.700000] CPU: 2 PID: 5317 Comm: test_sockmap Tainted: G          I       5.7.0-rc1+ #43
[  173.700005] Hardware name: Dell Inc. Precision 5820 Tower/002KVM, BIOS 1.9.2 01/24/2019
[  173.700009] Call Trace:
[  173.700021]  dump_stack+0x8e/0xcb
[  173.700029]  ? sk_msg_free_elem+0xdd/0x120
[  173.700034]  ? sk_msg_free_elem+0xdd/0x120
[  173.700042]  __kasan_report+0x102/0x15f
[  173.700052]  ? sk_msg_free_elem+0xdd/0x120
[  173.700060]  kasan_report+0x32/0x50
[  173.700070]  sk_msg_free_elem+0xdd/0x120
[  173.700080]  __sk_msg_free+0x87/0x150
[  173.700094]  tcp_bpf_send_verdict+0x179/0x4f0
[  173.700109]  tcp_bpf_sendpage+0x3ce/0x5d0

Fixes: 604326b4 ("bpf, sockmap: convert to generic sk_msg interface")
Signed-off-by: John Fastabend <john.fastabend@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Reviewed-by: Jakub Sitnicki <jakub@cloudflare.com>
Acked-by: Martin KaFai Lau <kafai@fb.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/158861290407.14306.5327773422227552482.stgit@john-Precision-5820-Tower