cmake: Port Zephyr to use zephyr_check_compiler_flag

This commit ports nearly all usage of check_c_compiler_flag,
check_cxx_compiler_flag, and check_compiler_flag to use
zephyr_check_compiler_flag instead.

This has a significant CMake configure-time performance impact.

Signed-off-by: Sebastian Bøe <sebastian.boe@nordicsemi.no>