modules: hal_nordic: Enable extended SPIM features only when needed

These features are available only for SPIM3 and when they are enabled
but this instance is not, the compilation fails. So they cannot be
enabled by default (as currently), but only when it is actually needed
(and possible).

Update the module revision to fix the issue in nrfx_config_nrf52840.h.

Signed-off-by: Andrzej Głąbek <andrzej.glabek@nordicsemi.no>
Signed-off-by: Carles Cufi <carles.cufi@nordicsemi.no>